Domestic abuse
Is domestic abuse a crime?
There is no single criminal offence of domestic abuse. However there are a number of behaviours and actions, which take place with a domestic situation, which are criminal offences.
These include assault, threatening to kill, wounding, strangling or choking, harassment, criminal damage to property, putting the victim in fear of violence, rape and sexual assault.
Who is responsible for the abuse?
The abuser - there is no excuse for domestic abuse. The perpetrator chooses to abuse and it is their responsibility. The victim is not responsible for the abuser's behaviour.
Abusers often try to excuse their behaviour by blaming the victim – a form of abuse in itself. By persuading the victim that the abuse is their fault, the perpetrator can control the victim and avoid taking responsibility for their own behaviour.
This also can apply to children who may feel responsible for the abuse. It is important they know it is not their fault.
Can abusers get help to address their behaviour?
Those who abuse their partners or fear they may do so can call the Respect phoneline, 0845 122 8609, on Monday to Friday between 10am-1pm and 2pm-5pm.